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20 Ways To Treat Yourself This Valentine’s Day

20 ways to treat yourself

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20 ways to treat yourself



1. Discover your self-love language 



Therefore, check out this blog post on how to love and invest in yourself using your self-love language! 🥰


2. Make yourself chocolate-covered strawberries


Therefore, this easy to make chocolate-covered strawberries recipe is incredible! Plus, they are made with collagen protein!! Making them delicious and beneficial for your health and wellness!


3. Pamper yourself with a homemade face mask


Especially when you’re an elementary school teacher haha! 🙃I love to l     


4. Go on a shopping spree


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5. Order take out & watch Netflix 




6. Read a few helpful self-care blog posts 




7. Create a self-love playlist 




8. Buy yourself flowers 


   Personally, I love sunflowers! And s  🌻


9. Unplug & be present 





10. Donate to a good cause or volunteer 


   Or you can simply volunteer your time at human societies, homeless shelters, or even your church!


11. Read a book at a coffee shop 




12. Buy yourself your favorite latte


Sometimes your favorite latte can significantly boost your mood more than you thought! Therefore, drive to your favorite local coffee shop or even run through the Starbucks drive-thru and buy yourself your go-to favorite latte! My go-to Starbucks drink is definitely a skinny vanilla latte with almond milk!


Related Post:

“6 Healthy Starbucks Drink Recipes: Winter Edition”



13. Write down some positive affirmations 




14. Enjoy a rom-com night 


    ! Let me know which one is your favorite in the comments!


15. Plan a solo road trip or weekend getaway


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16. Take yourself on a much-needed solo date




Solo date ideas: 

  • Take a drive and listen to relaxing or upbeat music
  • Buy yourself dessert
  • Sign up for an art class
  • Take a new workout class
  • Go grocery shopping for some healthy snacks
  • Visit your local coffee shop and try a new drink.
  • Try a random act of kindness
  • Have a full-on shopping day at the mall
  • Ride your bike around a park
  • Visit your local bookstore
  • Buy a healthy smoothie
  • etc!


17. Set up a self-love haven 




18. Brew some tea




19. Create a dream board or G.Y.S.T binder


   You could even create a smaller dream board and put it at the front of your G.Y.S.T (get your shit together) binder!

For more inspo, visit my full blog post: “How To Create A G.Y.S.T Binder and Become A Pro At #Adulting”


20. Keep your self-care simple!


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I would love to know your plans or self-care tips in the comments!

xo, Cydney


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I'm Cydney! I am a wellness and personal development coach who is dedicated to helping and teaching my fellow busy and hard-working 20-something-year-olds the simplest and most convenient ways to begin investing in yourself, your well-being, and your goals! And help you create a life that you love! Sound awesome?! 

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This easy to download calendar was created to help support YOU on your your journey to pursue self love in your life each day! And add a little bit of self-care in each day too. Each day is a new idea or a fun activity to love your life and yourself from the inside & out!

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COMING SOON! You know that I am all about focusing on your overall wellness every single day! And starting in your 20s is so important! So, here is my 16 step guide to support a beautiful transition in how you look & feel overall! Get everything you need packed into one simple guide that's supports a healthy body, radiant skin, confidence, and a happy soul!

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